Hi
This is bizarre. I felt my ‘husband’ pushed for me to get to know his daughter far too early into the relationship too. He was staying with his friend at the time and said it wasn’t a suitable place for her to come visit so could he bring her to mine. Btw there was nothing wrong with it, just a bit blokey but perfectly safe and his friend’s a good guy. In hindsight I think he just did that to wind up his ex wife but no way was I ready for it.
So because my relationship with his daughter was forced it never worked. Unfortunately (detail removed by moderator) and she had to come live with us. I was never consulted altho she had to go where her dad was by default.
Needless to say that was (detail removed by moderator) years of absolute hell!