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      littlemixedup
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      (Removed by moderator) my parents visited and gave me a copy of a cd with me and my sister (removed by moderator) when we were younger. I loved it and it brought back some great memories I’d otherwise forgotten about as all the bad stuff took over. I’ve now realised how much of my past was happy times before all the darkness and that there is so much in front to look forward to. This has given me such a boost ☺

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      Nova
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      Lovely! It’s great to connect with all happy positive times in our lives…these are the things that give us our strength and courage.

      Re connect as much as possible with peace and love
      Cx

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      KIP.
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      Hi, yes it’s only recently that I’ve been thinking a lot about happy times before I met my abuser. I think it takes a long time to sort through the horror of abuse and let the happy memories back in. I even think about boyfriends before I met my abuser. I had a couple of lovely kind considerate boyfriends in my life which makes it even more unbelievable that I suffered such horrible abuse when I did have good male role models, just goes to show the depths of control that comes with an abusive relationship. i think of my abuser as just a disgusting ex partner, a con man and a lowlife. Not worthy of being in my life now 👍

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