Looking for advice and support

[Leelabug]

I have “left” my n********t husband and started divorce proceedings. I still have to share a house with him until we sell up (house should go on the market soon). I am managing to remain unemotional in front of him and I am spending time with friends and on hobbies – all the right stuff. When he’s at home, however, I am hyper-vigilant, totally self-conscious and my chest is so tight I have to remind myself to take a deep breath! Any practical advice?

[Lisa]

Hi Leelabug,

Thank you for your post and welcome to the forum. I hope you find the forum a safe and supportive place to be with others who understand.

If you feel like you are in need of some additional support, you could chat to a Women’s Aid worker in confidence via our Live Chat service (open every day). They won’t tell you what to do, but can discuss your situation and signpost you to other support that’s relevant for you. You can access the chat service here: https://chat.womensaid.org.uk/

Do keep posting to let us know how you’re getting on.

Best wishes,

Lisa
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