I’m beginning to wonder if I’m the actual abuser not her, I’ve been very snappy lately and wonder if it’s me with the problem 🤔, the other day I received a phone call from a old friend, I didn’t put loud speaker on like I usually do, and had a brief conversation with friend , they said something to witch I agreed and my partner (detail removed by moderator) despite not hearing what my friend said, I snapped at her (detail removed by moderator), I got off the phone and she was instantly saying (detail removed by moderator), I didn’t bother telling her that if it was a secret I would have left the room, she went on to say (detail removed by moderator) , like that was my fault, I felt so angry because she always tries to get involved in my phone calls and she knows I hate it but still does it, this is why I wonder if I’m the abuser not her …
My other friend asked me if I’d go away over night (detail removed by moderator) with her, I said yes then told my partner who said (detail removed by moderator), like she usually says , I told her(detail removed by moderator), maybe she’s right maybe I am making out things are far worse than what they are , I no I’m desperately unhappy and can’t see a way out , I read this and just see someone who is being very petty,