This topic contains 7 replies, has 6 voices, and was last updated by  HopeLifeJoy 3 months, 1 week ago.

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  • #99645

    I find today a very difficult day. A confusing day. I should havd a child but i dont as i miscaraged. Yes it would been my fathers child and that could been really difficult but it wouldnt been the childs fault. I was still technically a child/ i survived i dont know.

    Then theres the confusion of that my own mother didnt protect me from my father. And a sense of anger at her. We havent spoken about my abuse in many years. She in denial. It hirts.

  • #99650

    Hey, it’s okay to feel confused and accept it’s a difficult day. Many women including me are sad today but it’s good to accept those feelings and it’s great that you are well enough to share them. Have you ever had counselling? It helped me x sending you a 🤗 hug. Tomorrow will be a better day x

  • #99651

    Hi there, I’m also sad but for different reasons. Wise words and advice from Kip, also sending hugs🤗

  • #99655

    Thinking of you on this difficult day for many 💕🌼

  • #99668

    I just want to give you a big hug, sorry about how you are feeling.

  • #99669

    Thanks for your replies. Im trying to get specialist councelling atm but i need autistic trained councellor and its hard to get but i am trying to get them to get me some.

  • #99671

    Just take things slowly. One hour at a time. Then one day at a time. Always moving forwards x

  • #99677

    Sending you a hug 💕 take good care of yourself

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