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    • #20685

      At last I am finally feeling fine happy and hopeful of my future.

      I finally realise that I was with an abuser and not a loving relationship. He never loved me – I mixed control for love.

      My counsellor is the main reason I have been able to do something I never did for (detail removed by moderator) years. She showed me a mirror reflection of me. I saw my pain in her eyes and it was a strange feeling but it changed my life forever.

      I hope and pray everyday for all the ladies that are struggling to be out of this and find happiness.

      We all deserve it.


    • #20694

      What a lovely post, glad to hear that you are feeling so good about life. It is nice when we see people coming out the other side xx

    • #20704

      Thank you Small Steps, yes eventual mental freedom & restoration comes & is there for the taking. I am in a similar position as yourself, I am currently enjoying the lazy Saturday morning at home alone,i feel peaceful, calm & happy,when I was with him i felt peed off,angry, resentful, deep mistrust & hoodwinked ,there really is no comparison. 👧👧👧👧👧👧👧

    • #20707

      So happy for you.

      Yes, it does take time to get to the point you are. But it’s worth the wait!


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