At last I am finally feeling fine happy and hopeful of my future.
I finally realise that I was with an abuser and not a loving relationship. He never loved me – I mixed control for love.
My counsellor is the main reason I have been able to do something I never did for (detail removed by moderator) years. She showed me a mirror reflection of me. I saw my pain in her eyes and it was a strange feeling but it changed my life forever.
I hope and pray everyday for all the ladies that are struggling to be out of this and find happiness.
Thank you Small Steps, yes eventual mental freedom & restoration comes & is there for the taking. I am in a similar position as yourself, I am currently enjoying the lazy Saturday morning at home alone,i feel peaceful, calm & happy,when I was with him i felt peed off,angry, resentful, deep mistrust & hoodwinked ,there really is no comparison. 👧👧👧👧👧👧👧