I have contributed financially to my eldest son going to an event with a group of his friends in the summer holidays.
If my ex were here, he wouldn’t have allowed it. He would have said that my son couldn’t expect to go for that money, that he didn’t deserve it, and that he couldn’t go, point blank.
Underneath it all, of course, there would have been as his motivation pure jealousy at my son’s youth and the fact that he would have enjoyed himself.
So isn’t it good that my ex doesn’t have that say anymore! Here’s to a full life for us all!