Is still saying he wants to see him in my home and help… but wants to still be nasty to me one minute saying hes glad we split up years ago as I were too argumentative meaning I defended myself then next we have a seriously ill son and we need to both be civil too each other if hes glad we split up why want to be in my home?? I’ve said we both also have our lifes to get on with he said yes but our sons first like he cares probably still wants control x