So I’m trying to get out and have got a new place but he is still able to get to me, complicated but I can’t explain without breaking forum rules by giving info that may identify me.
So I have some stuff still there which is valuable. It’s basically a kind of equipment for a hobby.
I’ve asked for it which got me a tantrum about how it stays with his.
I could enter the house and get it but I’d have to take everything still stored there and i don’t have room due to current living arrangements & to be honest I’m frightened he will catch me as I never know where he is & doesn’t work regular hours.
I can’t get a family member to come
With me as they enable him to get to me Eg invite him to family events make him welcome in their home, chat to him despite etc etc but that’s another story.
I could replace but it would cost thousands. I don’t have.
I want my stuff so I can build my life back and he knows that.
What’s my position with my belongings?