Need to scream

[Freetobethegreatest]

Cant say much because of the situation but just needed to scream!!! Does anyone else feel constantly undermined? Got some stuff ready for the kids a little snack for between breakfast and lunch when i turn around he’s moving it. Apparently im not allowed to give them a snack. he seems to think its fine to speak to me like this and doesnt see moving the stuff back as rude at all. Does he think this is how normal couples treat each other??? Undermining each other? He cant help himself and thinks this is normal. People may think im sensitive but when u have this morning til night its draining 🙁

[jellybeanqueen]

Hi Freetobethegreatest

Not being able to make the smallest decision in everyday life is very draining. They need to be in control of everything. Your right in saying it’s not normal because it isn’t. They will never see fault in their actions, and they will never change that. Who gives them the right to say we can’t give our children things. Not too sure on your situation, but stay strong sweetie. The time will come when you find the strength to stand up for what you deserve in life.

K xx

[Freetobethegreatest]

Thanks for the reply

This forum is so important to me as ive got no one to speak to. Its nice to be able to rant and show emotions ive got young children so have to Always be happy. Today i got moaned at for making too much mess in the kitchen when i made the kids breakfast sigh feels like i cant even breathe

[Ariel]

Hi it’s so mentally draining. I can never make any small decisions without consulting him. Even if the kids want a cookie or some of the milkshake I’ve bought for them I have to run it by him. I’m so sick of it. I’m fed up with always having to say “you better ask dad”.

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