Never Ending Cycle

[Lightning-Jet]

I found the abuse cycle diagram on the net, I feel that I just keep going round & round constantly. Why can’t I just end this relationship?
Its my house, he moved in with me, I need him to leave now!
But why am I so reluctant to do it? I coped before without him. But I can’t seem to just tell him, its always a gamble with his mood swings. I never know how to approach him.
Does anyone else wrestle with themselves & their conscience?
Thanks x

[Chickadee]

It is the control and fear. You stated you own the house, good. Find your inner strength and tell him to get out or you will have the authorities present to remove him. Break the cycle.

Stop worrying about the right time to approach, that is the fear talking. You can do it. Break the cycle.

Here when you need to talk. Hugs.

Chickadee

[Lightning-Jet]

Thanks Chickadee,

You are exactly right, it is the fear and control. I worry about when to tell him, I worry about the reaction, it is so difficult it really is.

I know I need to break that cycle once and for all, it amazes me that the pattern of abuse is a classic example & I just didn’t see it coming.

Thank you so much x

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