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      curtain00
      Participant

      I’m struggling to accept the fact I’m being mentally abused…   my family and friends say it there the ones that have made me aware, coersive & financial control and emotional abuse?

       

      I can get anything from 1-3weeks silences, doesn’t tell me his plans,  lies about minor things, the list is endless,   I’ve woken up to my pj’s pulled down I woke up and he was touching me. All I got was ” sorry  I’m not a rapist,, I don’t remember doing it, when I pulled him for another chat about it he made it all about him and how it made him feel hearing it.

      I’ve left once but went back.. I’ve moved away from all my family and friends not local.   I’m so lost  as to what to do.   I love him but I don’t know where to go or what to do.

      Trying to keep a strong head on and saving as much as I can.  Feel so alone & isolated

    • #172464
      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hi curtain00

      Welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing with us. I hope you find the forum a safe and supportive place to be with others who understand.

      If you feel like you are in need of some additional support, you could chat to a Women’s Aid worker in confidence via our Live Chat service (open every day). They won’t tell you what to do, but can discuss your situation and signpost you to other support that’s relevant for you. You can access the chat service here.

      Do keep posting to let us know how you’re getting on, we are here for you.

      Best wishes,

      Lisa
      Forum Moderator

    • #172489
      curtain00
      Participant

      Thank you… I’m really struggling atm, I’m relieved to back at work if I’m being honest.  I’ll jump on live chat tomorrow .

       

      Than you for the warm welcome

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