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      TheLioness789
      Participant

      Hey,

      if you have a child with your alleged abuser, is it normal to find that they don’t have anything to do with the child. Trying to understand why my ex doesn’t want anything to do with our daughter. I don’t know how it affects them.

      thanks.

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      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hello,

      Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I can understand that this is bothering you and you are concerned about the potential impact on your child. Abusive men want to have power and control- and if they are in their children’s lives- abusive men will often use this as a way to continue the abuse. Of course this doesn’t take away from how painful this is and that your child does not have the father they deserve- he is making that choice.

      Best Wishes

      Lisa

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