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You’ve worked them out and challenge them and put pressure on them…do they go away permanently x
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I wish I could give you the answer you want to hear.
They might let up a bit once they’ve secured a replacement for you but their need for vengeance never seems to abait.
Don’t loose hope but never let your guard down either. Until you’re in a position of complete no contact they will continue to try and abuse you.
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Unfortunately not in my experience – the more boundaries I put up the more persistent he becomes. I’ve blocked him on everything, deleted mutual friends etc but still tries to find a way to get to me.
All I can say is keep your wits about you and as hard as it is to set the record straight don’t say anything about your ex or what your doing in your life (if you still have mutual friends) to people. The less that gets back to him the better.
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Like the others … in my experience once they are ‘seen’ for what they are they either up it or abandon and move on ASAP to their next victim.
I also wish I could say yes it gets better and they listen and leave alone.. they don’t and the best advice I had was to get my ducks in a row and do not tell them what you are doing as they will do all they can to sabotage your growth ❤
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