I’m just wondering if anyone has managed to reduce parental conflict when there is a history of domestic abuse that you cannot prove?
My ex is a bully and I am digging my heels in trying not to let him bulldoze me every single day but the result of this is that I am seen as just as bad as him. Obviously I know what he’s like and why he’s doing certain things but when (detail removed by Moderator) and social services don’t see it I feel like I’m fighting a losing battle.
And truth is I am so tired of fighting. Maybe if I just stop then his abusive behaviour will become more obvious? Or maybe I’ll just lose my child because of laying down and taking it.