Just remember when they accuse you of something, it is generally projection.
i.e. they accuse you of being a bad parent…you don’t love your child etc.
When really it is THEY who are the bad parent, and don’t love their child etc.
It is a smoke screen and a form of brainwashing to get you off balance and make you doubt yourself.
It is very hard to realise, but it is a classic tactic.