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16th June 2017 at 8:53 pm #44216AnonymousInactive
Hi everyone
I’ve settled really nice in my new home loving every minute of it..iam.now ready to fight bk yet again I just can’t let it drop
I’ve found a solicitor so fingers crossed I can get legal aid to try to get my abuser to court after the police failed me ..(detail removed by moderator)
I just feel i need to protect other women from him .yes I did stay very silent in the relationship with my ex and looked past red flags ..but i did not deserve the abuse
So fingers crossed this solicitor can help me get the justice i deserve
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17th June 2017 at 6:29 am #44227SerenityParticipant
Good luck, I Am Free,
Don’t be scared to change solicitors if you don’t feel that this one gets you, or isn’t dynamic enough!
You can fight him, and you can win. We women have more strength than we know! Our abusers knew we had this strength: that’s why they spent all their time trying to destroy it!
What the police say is irrelevant. So many times, I have seen and heard them assess situations wrongly. They were pretty useless with me, too.
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17th June 2017 at 11:12 am #44233NovaParticipant
Iamfree…good woman! sounds best to recharge..then battle on through..
Agreed no one deserves abuse and abusive men being so arrogant think they can never be punished..& conveniently over time ‘forget’ like it never happened…we know different though
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17th June 2017 at 12:48 pm #44240AnonymousInactive
Thank you
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18th June 2017 at 6:42 am #44265KIP.Participant
Hey, I’m doing something very similar. The more times this sort of case comes before a court, the more awareness is raised. Good for you. The criminal law has limitations sadly.
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18th June 2017 at 1:41 pm #44281NinaParticipant
Good on you Serenity! The one thing all these men fear is their victim standing up to them and their heinous behaviour being made public.
I’m appalled at the light sentencing of the UK courts in regard to domestic abuse and violence. The fact these men can appeal their sentences too with no grounds whatsoever, other than to show their arrogance. Forcing their victims to go through two trials is unfair and infuriating, but they need to be punished.
I’m recharged too now (detail removed by Moderator). It’s empowering knowing that I’m not going to just roll over and disappear. For once I’m standing up for myself and ultimately he’s not so easily going to abuse women and children again.
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18th June 2017 at 3:23 pm #44288AnonymousInactive
Well done nina
I will wipe the smirk off his face . I did not think I was strong enough last year ..but iam so much stronger i aint giving up this fight ever !
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