don’t worry its not as bad as you think, just talk calmly and honestly. I wrote down bullet points to look at before my appointment. Think of what suits the children and remain focused on their needs, which is what you all really want to achieve. Be honest about the abuse and what kind of custody/routine you will think will work for the children. They will ask general questions about history of the relationship and why you think it will benefit the children to stick with your proposal. If the cafcass office writes a report and has misunderstood you, don’t panic call them or get a solicitor to explain what you meant to say. I have had misunderstanding with cafcass myself and if your calm and friendly they will hear you out. Don’t get into a slanging match about your ex though, be honest but don’t make it like your attacking you ex.