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      Good afternoon

      after (detail removed by moderator) of marriage 4 children, lot of verbal, financial, emotional,  physical abuse and different counselling. Alcohol was involed, he ended up in a cell for a night before. I feel like this might need to stop for both of us. I stayed, I thought for the children. I must admit I have felt lonely and with no understanding from my husband. He always knows everything the best. I feel like I cannot even say my opinion without him shouting at me. I ended up having sleeping with another man. Which he seems, he cannot forgive. And we keep going in visos  circles.

      Could you please advise me, if Im entitled to stay in our home with the children and he needs to move out? He seems he wants to get rid of me and is trying to be in charge of everything.

      many thanks for any support

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      Lisa
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      Hi,

      Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. What you described sounds really oppressive to live with. You and your children deserve to feel safe- he is choosing to be abusive.

      I would suggest seeking legal advice regarding the rights to your home. Rights of Women are a voluntary organisation offering free, confidential legal advice on matters including family law, domestic abuse, children and child contact issues. Their Family law advice line can advise around domestic abuse; divorce, finances, cohabitation and property in relationship breakdown; parental responsibility and child arrangements. They are available on 0207 251 6577 (Tues-Thurs 7-9pm and Fri 12-2pm). They also have a line for women in London on 020 76-8 1137 (Mon 10am-12pm and 2-4pm, Tues-Weds 2-4pm, Thurs 10am-12pm and 2-4pm).

      Best Wishes

      Lisa

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