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      Confused123
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      I’m so glad I ignored his calls [detail removed by moderator], at times I was thinking to answer the phone thinking he was calling about Csa payments , just listened to his voice mail messages he had left , was just so angry again about how I had messed his life how I had cheek to challenge him and his brother , and just abuse . Can’t beleive how negative this man is and how his left me feelin shaken . His latest comment I’ve left him mentally and financially messed up . I didn’t do that but they just leave us feelin so low and like s**t ….

    • #11529
      Falling Skys
      Participant

      Hi confused123

      Big hugs and I am so pleased you didn’t answer the call and had instant abuse.

      If you have kept it/them it is evidence of his continued abuse.

      But it proves that in their eyes every thing is someone else’s fault and not theirs.

      I can understand how upsetting and unsettling it all is. As mine has started doing more things and I am lossing the ability to make decisions again. Feeling lost and low, I have even started to drifting off, an old coping mechanism.

      But you and I are survivors and we won’t let them win.

      FS xx

    • #11534
      Confused123
      Participant

      hi hun

      sorry to hear he is playing up for u, all we can do is keep getting advise as they seriously do effect our thinking , its not u ,i’m the same, he has an immediate impact on way i think

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