I’m so glad I ignored his calls [detail removed by moderator], at times I was thinking to answer the phone thinking he was calling about Csa payments , just listened to his voice mail messages he had left , was just so angry again about how I had messed his life how I had cheek to challenge him and his brother , and just abuse . Can’t beleive how negative this man is and how his left me feelin shaken . His latest comment I’ve left him mentally and financially messed up . I didn’t do that but they just leave us feelin so low and like s**t ….
Big hugs and I am so pleased you didn’t answer the call and had instant abuse.
If you have kept it/them it is evidence of his continued abuse.
But it proves that in their eyes every thing is someone else’s fault and not theirs.
I can understand how upsetting and unsettling it all is. As mine has started doing more things and I am lossing the ability to make decisions again. Feeling lost and low, I have even started to drifting off, an old coping mechanism.
But you and I are survivors and we won’t let them win.