My ex met his current girlfriend online, from what he had said. She has the same name as me, and happened to be in my class at school. She has her hair dyed the same colour as mine, and similar clothes. She has written on formal forms in her name, to make it look I have been derogatory about my own parenting and calls herself my kids mum.
I am not blaming her, I have reasons to suspect that my ex is still obsessed with me, and controls people for his own gains… but, I am looking at myself in the mirror and wondering if I should change my name by deed-pole so this confusion does not keep happening around professionals, because it has caused confusion and my view not being taken into count.