This term baby steps, it’s helpful. I make myself think this way but it’s new.
I’ve only just realised I find thinking in baby steps very anxiety inducing because I have to jump to it, I’m on eggshells I can’t take things slowly etc etc. I’m watching out all the time, without even realising.
So baby steps are new to me.
I’m all or nothing, get it done now, quick!
Slow, steady, relaxed this has been drummed into me as lazy
It feels living with an abuser you’re moving quickly all the time emotionally and mentally and physically, if that makes sense as you are living in survival mode.
Hope this makes sense, silly post maybe?