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Husband announced he has enrolled himself in a group sport.
It’s in the evening.
I can’t understand why I’m so annoyed maybe it’s because in the (detail removed by Moderator) years we’ve been together he comes home when he feels like it.I never get a heads up on when he might be home it could be up until 9 or later . If he fancies helping someone with a job à their home he never lets me know. And yet he expects a meal waiting for him which I stupidly have done every night. He says he’s working but I don’t believe that for a minute. Yes he works long hours but there were also long periods when he would go out after work never let me know he was going out, wouldn’t answer my texts and he would roll in at whatever time he wanted. Smelling of alcohol telling me he hadn’t had a drink.
All of this has me paranoid and he loves using it against me. He has over the years admitted he enjoys attention
I feel so sad and lonely I have no friends left and he is enjoying life it seems so unfair. -
Mine does just the same! He is away for work now, and he has told me how tired he is but yet he puts up a picture on his social media that he’s somewhere else?? If I say something then he tells me that if I don’t like something, I can f**k off from his life. But in the past when I did mention us not being together he gets extremely abusive towards me, which if I say the wrong word it could easily lead to physical abuse, not just psychological.
He never tells me either until the very last minute when he’s leaving or when he will be back, because if I ask him WHEN, he gets paranoid that I’m trying to bring another man home or doesn’t tell me when he’ll come back as if he will catch me at home with someone.
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