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29th November 2016 at 11:25 am #33488SerenityParticipant
My gym membership is coming to an end, and I was pretty annoyed that- for much of the membership period- the spa was out of action. It’s now getting repaired, but that didn’t much help me!
In my marriage, I became someone who was scared to stand up for their own rights and maybe even felt I was undeserving of anything. I think it was all part of his project to make me think that I should give, give, give and not want anything for myself.
Well, I telephoned the Chief Exevutive and complained, and I’ve been given some free months, with a big apology!
I also managed to bite my tongue and not succumb to my perpetrator lodger’s attempts to get me to change my mind about asking her to find somewhere else to live. I minimised contact and tried the scratched record response- in fact, I put into action all those yechniques I was taught on my Pattern Changing course about dealing with a perpetrator- and it worked! She left without any more cross words having to be exchanged.
I’ve also had my assessment for a dental brace. I’m ploughing ahead with that. I’ve signed up to a beauty group on FB which gives tips and offers.
And I’ve just been to a session at the gym! 😇
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29th November 2016 at 12:17 pm #33490lostandbrokenParticipant
A big yaaaaaay to you hun!!!
Really happy to see that good can come from our suffering. You should be very proud of yourself xx
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29th November 2016 at 2:01 pm #33497KIP.Participant
Well done. All you are asking is what is reasonable. After years of living in a world full of backing down, compromising and dreading confrontation, it’s only what is fair. And how nice that they agree with you. It’s nice to be pampered 👏
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29th November 2016 at 3:01 pm #33499EeyoreNoMoreParticipant
So happy for you and proud of you, well done!!
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29th November 2016 at 7:53 pm #33534AyannaParticipant
Wonderful news!
Life has endless opportunities. XX -
29th November 2016 at 8:59 pm #33545Peaceful PigParticipant
That is fabulous to hear Serenity. Go you!! 🙋 Xx
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1st December 2016 at 4:10 am #33619jsscollieParticipant
Well done you, you’ve been so brave. Be proud of yourself for this achievement x
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1st December 2016 at 8:32 am #33626SuntreeParticipant
Well done, good news all around.
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