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1st February 2020 at 11:39 pm #96918
savingthestars
ParticipantI have been attending Recovery and it has helped me to realize that my daughters current diagnosis is wrong, and found out why. I have spoken to the school, and they see things from my view point. And, she now has CAHMS input to reach a true diagnosis. I have typed concerns into Clairs law, because I realise that I do not know my ex, and have the local police visiting me next week. I am not sure whether on not to file to change the court order my ex filed for yet, or see what happens with police. Its weird to be listened to. I think til this point I just looked like some… whirrling thing not getting anyware and now… It just feels a bit… odd.
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2nd February 2020 at 7:52 pm #96963
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2nd February 2020 at 8:46 pm #96969
fizzylem
ParticipantThis is such good news, sounds like you’re satrting to make strides. Go you. Lets hope you’ve both turned a corner now. Sounds like you are gathering enough professional support to request a court re-visist this. Keep going x
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3rd February 2020 at 12:48 am #96979
savingthestars
Participant(detail removed by moderator). I feel like I am on a wizzing ride. and I can barely stop spinning. Professionals are actually taking me seriously. I am not being held back by that invisible anchor anymore. I mean, he doesn’t know it yet, but theres a shadow growing under him. I am not doing it in a paranoid person way this time, and instead of saying “hes made of gold” they are saying “his behaviour is concerning” I mean, okay, my family still say stupid things which sound like they are siding with him. He should have contact with the child because he is a father… and I’m like hmm yes he should, because otherwise the child may feel i was unjust but he is a mental danger so needs to be watched. Tbh, I am expecting him to be told by the court the deal, and he dissapears because its not his plan. I am also bit scared because I am expecting him to go all defensive when he realises theres a shaddow under him, but its not stopping me. It gives me fire.
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3rd February 2020 at 8:41 am #96982
diymum@1
Participant🔥you are xx wow this is great news 😃they’re listening to the truth of course xx much easier to tell the truth about events than lie like theses men OMG I am so pleased for you it’s so liberating to be believed xx 😘❤️❤️
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3rd February 2020 at 8:43 am #96983
diymum@1
ParticipantAlso if your child is suffering and sounds like they’ll prove this he can see her in a supervised setting? I do honestly believe tho these men do damage children xx
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3rd February 2020 at 9:24 am #96985
savingthestars
ParticipantDef, they don’t care in the slightest. He is like.. mega psychologically ruining. He is holding his child back, because it is easier for him. I filled in the application and it was like yea, this guy is dangerous. I have asked the courts for supervised, and that he has no other involvement. I mean its the courts that make the final decision, I know but at the same time. I feel… hes… getting his cummupance? him saying his behavious has no impact on his parenting capasity or morality whatever, is like… nope we dont believe that now. I feel like crying. lol. U just hope they take it.
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3rd February 2020 at 12:10 pm #96989
diymum@1
ParticipantIt might be good to ask that if he’s given supervised that can be at most. Because sometimes they can up the contact after a few months and allow unsupervised? Also supervised can be supported and unsupported so I think you would need to look into this first. Just a heads up just incase ! Xx 😘
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3rd February 2020 at 12:12 pm #96990
diymum@1
ParticipantIndirect contact is a good option don’t think that can be scaled up ? Xx the national contact centres could give u this info xx
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3rd February 2020 at 12:15 pm #96991
diymum@1
ParticipantYou’ll be fine ❤️💖💪 you’ve got professionals on you side now so you’re chances are extremely good xx 🤗
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