The sad truth is that often these men seem perfect to the outside world. They’re charming, caring and considerate. It’s only behind closed doors that their ugliness shows through.
To the outside world my husband is a saint but I know the truth.
Hold on to the fact that you know the truth. Mine too is playing the victim but we both know the truth really.
It is frustrating and really hurtful but the chances of them accepting responsibility is virtually non existent.
Have a read of posts and you’ll find you are not alone in not being believed; have a good rant on here (where you will be believed and supported).
Bug hugs xx