Thought I was doing ok. But found out today he had texted my son’s girlfriend twice and had asked her to get him to get in touch.My son is adult and wants nothing to do with his dad .He was initially having contact but his behaviour has meant my son wants nothing to do with him. It’s brought back all the horrible churning stomach feelings I used to get and made me realise I’m not doing as well as I thought. It’s only been *months since he went but so much has happened since and I know I’ve got a difficult journey ahead. I also feel for my son who is under no illusions as to his dad but likely also now has mixed emotions. I just wish he’d disappear. He has a habit of texting mutual friends so now I’m on edge expecting him to start again