Thank you

[searchingforhope]

Hi all

haven’t been on regularly in many months. I moved out last year, with help from so many supports I’m lucky enough to have including here.
The support and encouragement and validation that I’ve received here has been invaluable, this is such a hard road. Post -separation abuse is quite real and difficult to deal with, but I’m getting there. I guess I find strength from somewhere each day, no matter how hard the days sometimes feel.
I have my own space now, which has provided such relief. I no longer dread going home in the evenings, I no longer get anxious on a Friday afternoon at the thought of the weekend ahead. I no longer look forward to Mondays so much to get me back to work and out of home.
Having my own space has helped so much. If I can do it, I’m sure you can too.
Thank you to everyone here that has given me support. You have all been a huge important part in helping my find the strength to keep going.

Stay strong. Sending love.
SFH
x*x

[nbumblebee]

Sitting here reading this i have tears in my eyes. Ive had such a bad couple of weeks he has been nasty so nasty and today again just vile and i so want to know how to leave why i cant what im so scared of Im so tired so very tired of fighting. A weekend away with him is appraoching and im dreading it I cant stand him near me anymore but still I stay.
I love to read stories feom those of you who are out including the struggles the truth but also your words how you no longer dread weekends etc give me hope.
You are amazeingly brave sweetie I hope I really hope you continue to grow heal and enjoy life. X*x

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