I posted this last night as an update on my joining post but i figured it was best put in here now.
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I’m contacting family today to put a plan into place and should hopefully be out in a few days, He currently is blisfully unaware and even had me making calls to a joint thing we share as hes stressing about money. I have no savings left from being with him.
I can’t wait to be free!