I previously thought building the courage to end the relationship was the hardest thing I ever did and tbh I thought it was the hardest thing I would ever do! And in truth it probably is/was and I’m sure I will look back and see that (that or living with the abuse for so long)…
However, I’m now thinking the hardest thing was telling my child about the separation! It broke my heart all over again!
I can see the light at the end of the tunnel now, it’s within grasping distance… but there’s obstacles in the way but I’m sure as long as my child is okay we will be able to move them together!