betterdays, mine does that to me too. If I have a shower or if he has a shower he does the exact same thing as you describe. Especially when we go to sleep, he makes me sleep naked ALL of the time (exept if I’m on my period), he keeps me awake by unwanted touching but I can’t say anything otherwise he just goes off an a rant that will last for hours. I have to have sex with him when he feels like it or the alternative – an abusive, emotionally draining rant that will last hours a time, days even, if I don’t give in. He tells me that he masturabates and touches me after I fall asleep sometimes which I find REALLY disgusting and disturbing. In my mind, he’s a total perv.