Time at the refuge

[Door mouse]

Moving along, I started the freedom programme useful insight into the behaviour of men. so not only me. application for housing in a new area hoping that won’t take too long. the worse is over. It is good to finally sit down and start the healing. Some of the wounds I expect to heal quicker than others. Although the emotional stuff I know will take longer Typing this Now I can almost hear him saying what a !£$%&*( SAP frigid old £$%& still not everyone was as keen as he were I don’t feel so pushed into doing stuff anymore and feeling quietly confident, I don’t have the echoes of being called a (detail removed by Moderator) or shown up in town although the cage has slowly come away, I have grass to walk on feeling a little more relaxed about the future away from people just looking at me funny, I have some of my identity back isolation is a horrible thing to put somebody through something I don’t ever want to experience again.at least I’m someone which is better than no-one. I know I have a way to go also facing possible cancer on the (detail removed by Moderator). Don’t Know Just yet I’m not bothered If anybody reads this! but I tell you what if it is positive for cancer £$%& it!

[Lisa]

Hi Door mouse,

Thank you for your post. its good that you are in a place where you can focus on you and your healing. You deserve to feel safe and to have your freedom back. Its taken a lot for you to get here and you can finally take a breath.

You can access free online courses created by or in partnership with therapists specialising in trauma at Bloom. These courses can be accessed in your own time and at your own pace and cover topics such as trauma, abuse and boundaries.

Take care and keep posting

Best Wishes

Lisa

[Allornothing]

Hi Door mouse, I, like you, have also done the freedom programme, emergency and temporary accommodation and am 6 months into living at my new accommodation. It’s good to hear the positivity, the Freedom is unreal, what others may deem as a boring life, I feel I lead a blissful one (albeit currently waiting on police to arrest ex when they find him). But when he isn’t consuming my head, I am sleeping like I’ve never slept before.

I hope these types of posts give others hope, sorry to hear the C word but I hope everything is OK and onwards and upwards! Xx

[StrongLife]

Congratulations on moving onto this stage and doing programs.

[Door mouse]

Thank you

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