I think you know the answer to that.
I gave my ex so many chances, but the truth is, these men don’t want to change. My ex was living in my house, contributing nothing financially, while I was run ragged doing all the jobs in the house and garden. He sat on the sofa all day, drinking. Why would he change? He was getting exactly what he wanted. I tried so many times to help him get help for his alcoholism and encourage him into work. One day, I just realised I was wasting my time.
You deserve better.