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[sweet4]

It was (detail removed by Moderator), and the grown up kids took him out for dinner (detail removed by Moderator), i am disgusted by them, i have never been taken out for a lunch or a dinner, in a lifetime,by any of them, (detail removed by Moderator), i am locked away in my bedroom for (detail removed by Moderator) now away from his abuse, and they did that to me, i gave up working to look after their kids to help them out,thats it now, i will be looking for a job and they can look for childcare.

[Lisa]

Hi Sweet4,

Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. Its understandable this is upsetting for you and may have left you feeling not appreciated. Its important to be kind to yourself after what you have been through. Abusive men can be very manipulative and he has likely not been honest with them about his behaviour.

You can access free online courses created by or in partnership with therapists specialising in trauma at
Bloom. These courses can be accessed in your own time and at your own pace and cover topics such as trauma, abuse and boundaries.

Take care and keep posting

Lisa

[StrongLife]

I understand this feeling. The domestic violence is not the kids fault.

Ultimately everyone has one Mum or dad. Simple as that.

Hope that helps – truly understanding what you are going through

[sweet4]

Well they have just ignored me now, then one of the daughters spoke to me yesterday, she does not understand, also she says, why cant you (removed by moderator) with her dad, honestly im up against a brick wall,.

[sweet4]

I forgot to say, the kids sit (removed by moderator) and other family members, and him.playing happy families, i have to lock myself away from him, and its really affecting me, that i have to listen to there happiness, i have explained to one of the daughters to explain to her sisters that this is so wrong

[Author]

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