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He’s a selfish p*g, totally selfish, he’s miserable so he’ll make sure everyone else is – there are no boundaries for him, he’s beyond vile. Says things about caring for others then in the next breadth he’s totally the victim and it’s all about him. What damage this person has caused. I totally walk on eggshells nearly all of the time, my favourite time of day is bedtime because this is the hours when I don’t have to look at or listen to him, sleep is my saviour. Sorry I know there’s little point to what I have said but it makes me feel a tiny bit better to vent. I have been in touch with my local DA agency and met with a support worker, this felt empowering, if only for a little while as he has no idea that I have started reaching out and telling people my truth. Thanks for listening, warmest wishes to you all. X
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You deserve better than how this man is treating you @Cornflake. Well done for reaching out to your local DA agency, that is a huge first step. And for posting on here about how your feeling – these men isolate us, for whatever reasons, and it’s only when we start speaking up and learning how wrong their behaviour was, that we begin to become empowered again. I hope the DA agency have been able to give you some good advice on what steps you can take X
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Bedtime was my favourite too. I came to hate weekends, hated certain days of the week, started to hate coming home from work. I’d get this cold feeling at certain points in my drive, still experience them now. I’d be happy when he said he was sleeping downstairs as it meant a small bit of space, even though I knew he’d be drinking/cheating/whatever. I know it’s hell on earth right now but this is the fog lifting, seeing how things truly are and how they shouldn’t be. Well done for reaching out xx
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