Iam having a bad moment! Just thinking what the detective said to me . The more you think about him the more hes winning! But they dont realise its so hard to move on from the trauma! They also gave me advise to go bk to mental health and get some counciling. The thing that has hit me hard is when i told the detective my ex used my past against me! And said do you think your ex likes kids . That so hit me hard! I feel sick