Over a decade ago a woman rang me in the middle of the night to tell me my husband had been sleeping with her.
They were clearly rantings of a rejected woman of dubious morals. I believed her facts but not her judgements/opinions.
I gained some insight into my marriage but unfortunately missed/brushed away important details.
Namely she described a man I did not recognise and I took it that she didn’t really know him like I did. The truth was she saw the man he hid from me for all our years together.
I had a similar call from a woman. My ex even got his boss to cover for him saying this woman had done this to another man and it was lies. I brushed it aside too. It’s only now I’m out of the hell, things like this make sense. It’s his shame not mine x
i had the same thing from an ex of his 6 months into our relationship – she even went as far as finding out where i lived at the time and warned my dad to keep me away from him and filled his head with what we were sucked in to believing were a load of nonsense ‘stories’ from a crazy jealous ex girlfriend 😶