Over a decade ago a woman rang me in the middle of the night to tell me my husband had been sleeping with her.
They were clearly rantings of a rejected woman of dubious morals. I believed her facts but not her judgements/opinions.
I gained some insight into my marriage but unfortunately missed/brushed away important details.
Namely she described a man I did not recognise and I took it that she didn’t really know him like I did. The truth was she saw the man he hid from me for all our years together.