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      Karisqq
      Participant

      Always wanna talk about those abuses on me and the abusive things I have witness since a young age, but feel like there’s no one else to talk to, ppl are just very busy and they have their own issues too, it makes me feel like I’m an annoying a*s who burdens others. And sometimes I just worry that ppl will think that I’m exaggerating things…

      Do other ppl fee that way too? And how do you guys cope? Or is it just bc I’m very young so I’m more prone to loneliness?

    • #170590
      Indeepindance
      Participant

      Karisqq I do feel the same as you. I feel like I’ve been repeating myself for months to anyone I come into contact with, and have the feeling some of them are needing a break from it. It’s so hard because talking helps to keep perspective and remember the bad stuff by seeing and hearing their reactions to what I tell them. But I’m running out of willing listeners it feels and even then I don’t want to become that person that never speaks about anything else. Some people don’t know how to help and end up worrying about you  that you’re still not okay, which then makes you feel guilty for making them worry. I do also worry that I’ve got a skewed vision on what happened and that I’ve got  it all wrong somehow.

      It’s so hard and professional help is really difficult to reach.

      I feel lonely due to being a very different age and it scares me what future will be, as everyone else has their lives and are settled, so I’m on my own quite a lot.

      Keep posting here whenever you can and be kind to yourself

      Xxxxx

       

       

    • #170592
      nbumblebee
      Participant

      Oh yes i feel this too. Lonliness is hard you want to reach out but feel nobody wants to listen or understands. None of this is easy which ia why places like this are a huge lifeline. Xx

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