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    • #155289
      Darkclouds321
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      This has been going on now for a couple of years. I can’t take it anymore. I hate him. I hate that he still continues to blame me and tells me I need to change. Throwing dining room chairs, spitting on me , threatening me and it’s gone further.
      I can’t see a way out other than getting him to take our child and leave me alone but I can’t do that. It would destroy me losing my child so instead I’m stuck. Saying sorry for things I haven’t done. Trying to hold it all together with someone I can’t stand . This is what life is meant to be like?

    • #155291
      nbumblebee
      Participant

      Nope its not nobody should live this way nobody.
      I know you are scared I know you worry about what will happen to your child if you leave but you living with this fear your child living with this fear is not good.
      Try really try and find some strength within to reach out a friend a gp or womans aid people can and will help but you have to ask sweetie you have to trust someone to help you.
      You dont have to live this way there is a way out but you have to want it, look for it, be brave enough to fight for it sweetie.
      Stay safe xxxxxxx

    • #155367
      StrongLife
      Participant

      Hi there,

      There are ways to get out. Reach out to a domestic violence line for housing, or counsellor who is specialised in domestic violence or family/friend and keep reaching.

      Please keep you and your child safe.

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