We are not alone

[Ayanna]

And that scares them. There are people out there who watch too how they treat abused women.
And they offer support and listen. They take on board what we have to say. Break the silence. If you are not supported well, do not remain silent.
We suffered enough.
No so called professional has the right to abuse any of us any further.

[Serenity]

My ex is confused as to how I have had such strength and who might be supporting me. He had put it down to apparently my “divorced friends egging me on.”

He’s got such a primitive way of looking at his own abuse, failing to take any responsibility. My youngest son came out with something a few weeks ago, which I am sure he learned from his dad, saying that ‘if a man hits a woman, it’s seen as worse than if a woman hit a man.’ So, obviously my ex has jumped on the bandwagon of women exaggerating abuse/ men being innocent victims etc, trying to deny his abuse and minimise his actions.

But his opinion isn’t important. I know you what I know.

[Ayanna]

Haha, men are so stupid.

I phone around now and I tell my experiences to everyone. And I get good advice where to complain, how to bypass those who do nothing.

Silence is on the side of the abusers. When we break the silence they become afraid.

[Serenity]

Yes! Because they are quivering jellies underneath, cowards who haven’t achieved proper manhood.

[EeyoreNoMore]

Is it wrong for me to chip in and say that even his manhood didn’t work properly (TMI, sorry!)

[Serenity]

Eeyore: 😉

[Positiveandlookingahead]

Eeyore oh my God I feel the same way lol hollllllaaaaaaa! Yeah they better had be quaking in this boots we are not allowing this happening anymore we no longer will be silenced!

[Nova]

Eeyore 😀😆😂that’s the plain truth talking ….your right though, speak out about them, shine a spotlight on their abuse …otherwise they’ll always be seen as the poor little victim…which we know is not the case.

They are horrors ..,tell it like it is!

Group Hugs xx

[Ayanna]

Hahaha! The ex abuser of mine functioned well. He loved porn. I wish I had had the strength and intuition (detail removed by Moderator) whilst he was deeply asleep after having had satisfied himself by brutally raping me. (detail removed by Moderator) Too late now.

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