Red flags? Dating while going through a divorce? Coming on a bit too strong on the first date?. Not calling you by your first name but by a pet name?. Wanting you to meet there kids in week 3.. at this point he hadnt even met me yet!!!!. Sending pics of his son when i tried ending things and putting him on the phone or vouce message??? His sons special needs?. Saying i needed more counselling urgently when i fell out with him… he knew about my abusive past…. xx