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    • #164384
      Door mouse
      Participant

      Scared to go into refuge with no locks on the door scared might be attacked at the refuge

    • #164385
      Lostnalone
      Participant

      Doormouse u don’t need to be scared luv. Refuges are very safe and secure places. Hope ur ok darling. X

    • #164387
      Door mouse
      Participant

      I was tod no locks on the door no one to tell

    • #164388
      Lostnalone
      Participant

      Is there not a number anywhere luv.xx

    • #164389
      Lostnalone
      Participant

      Seriously there should be somebody to reassure you.xx

    • #164402
      Door mouse
      Participant

      Just got a nasty feeling that summit might happen no locks on the doors and the only one there even if there was how do I know they are genuine who do you think I should call I don’t have friends or family so who going to Know if I die

    • #164444
      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hi Door mouse,

      Thank you for sharing with us. If you feel able to then you could discuss your concerns with the refuge workers about safety and security within the refuge. Hopefully they can reassure you and put your mind at ease- it is a big decision about going to a refuge so it is important you feel comfortable.

      Keep posting when you can.

      Best wishes,

      Lisa

    • #164447
      Door mouse
      Participant

      Hi Lisa
      still feeling a little unsettled when all stuff still going on I will be leaving tomorrow. I am zero-contact stage, and it is hard to keep saying No but I know I got to do this for me or spend the rest of my life in misery. If it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t just can’t take it any more just want to be happy Thanx lisa

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