Why do i feel so angry with myself
By staying in that relationship with my abuser even though iam free (detail removed by moderator) now
I still blame myself for allowing him to abuse me ..even though i gave my all to him .hoping he would change .
I should of spoke up when my gut new something was wrong…
Anger is natural. You are entitled to be angry. We were all conned by the worst kind of con men. I read a sign once that said you can visit the house of anger but dont unpack and move in. I used to be angry. Now i just feel pity for him and am relieved he isnt targetting me directly anymore x hopefully these feelings will pass in time. Have you received councelling? I asked my councellor why i felt anger and she replied, because I was duped. How true x
Hi kip
Thanks for replying yer. I go to victim support
they have been fantastic with me
I just feel stupid first red flag he said to.me was ..I don’t do control .i dont do jelously and arguments. Grr … i should of run when I had the chance. Oh well I’ve learnt a big lesson nown kip ..just so happy i have my freedom though x