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    • #45096
      Anonymous
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      Hi peeps

      Why do i feel so angry with myself
      By staying in that relationship with my abuser even though iam free  (detail removed by moderator) now
      I still blame myself for allowing him to abuse me ..even though i gave my all to him .hoping he would change .
      I should of spoke up when my gut new something was wrong…

      Pufft

    • #45097
      KIP.
      Participant

      Anger is natural. You are entitled to be angry. We were all conned by the worst kind of con men. I read a sign once that said you can visit the house of anger but dont unpack and move in. I used to be angry. Now i just feel pity for him and am relieved he isnt targetting me directly anymore x hopefully these feelings will pass in time. Have you received councelling? I asked my councellor why i felt anger and she replied, because I was duped. How true x

    • #45098
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Hi kip
      Thanks for replying yer. I go to victim support
      they have been fantastic with me

      I just feel stupid first red flag he said to.me was ..I don’t do control .i dont do jelously and arguments. Grr … i should of run when I had the chance. Oh well I’ve learnt a big lesson nown kip ..just so happy i have my freedom though x

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