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      Diamond
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      I am new on here I left (detail removed by moderator) ago I was in my car with him he was drunk as he says he gets like this coz he can chill he wanted to move in with me for some reason I said he was a drunk my sons hates him I lied all the time I told him outright …. Then he unleashed hell on me u was on his mums drive I had my seat belt on he rained blow after blow he released my seat belt pushed me out the car stamped on me tow black eyes broken wrists black ear from somewhere I managed to get back in the car and drive I got a non mol against him but why do I feel I deserved it have good days and bad days feel worthless some days I feel I can’t go on drained go to wrk told them I fell why I want it all to end and be me Soz to go on about me as I know you all have suffered but need some advise xx

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      older lady
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      Hello, you have had no replies yet. Don’t be put off. I’m a bit ‘down’ today so I’m feeling a bit useless. Your experience was horrible. I don’t know what support you have locally? Your feeling down on yourself isn’t uncommon, I’m sure. It’s similar to believing we ‘attract’ abuser’s, or thinking we should have, could have, would have changed something that might have prevented the abuse in the first place. We take on the responsibility for the other person’s abuse. I think you should ‘go on’ as much as you need to, it might help you to express it. Xx

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