Hi I don’t think abusers can change, unless the woman does exactly as she is told, even then they will still abuse & Always struggle with their anger, I lived with it years always hoping always praying that he would change, once our trust is shattered you are always on edge, knowing what they are capable of, know their true colours. They also know you, know your vulnerabilities & will always play on your weaknesses. I am so scared now away that I know I will never get involved again, his damage so severe. I think once an abuser always an abuser, it’s their persona who they are, how they see it fit to do what they do, their right x