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… If we could all meet up with our kids somewhere . They play and we have a cuppa and hug and support each other? This forum is so amazing but I miss female company – company with others that get what we are going through. Everyone else, friends that they are, don’t see what he does half the time. I am a very private person with friends and family – I am sure that some of them would think I am making mountains out of molehills. Xxxx
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I know what you mean tuppancewell. I’d happily bake a batch of brownies and say, come on over ladies. It’s hard when you are as private as you are. I’m the same, to the point most of my family also think I’m melodramatic. He even took delight in telling me how an aunt of mine sent him a text letting him know they have no problem with him. It makes you feel very, very alone. Then on the other side I’ve got my mother getting angry at me because I can’t get angry and vengeful towards him, that I’m sad. That I’m heartbroken. We are here though, not in the room but a similar headspace. X
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It would be great, I often think the same. There are no support groups near me and I couldn’t do the Freedom programme because of work. When I do spend time with someone who gets it it is so validating and lifts me up. But most people, even the ones that mean well, are invalidating or try to tell me what to do or how to feel. Some people have been kind but I get the feeling they like me being in crisis and them being the helper which isn’t at all helpful especially as I grow in strength. I’m not ungrateful but I need to be able to keep improving. I’m sure we could build our collective confidence in no time! X
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