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Little pixie you and me both… yet my children do not bother with their dad.. my son couldn’t care less not sure deep down he might and my daughter tries yo be OK with him just to keep him happy.. I earn a quarter of what he gets yet I have to literally pay all bills and general day yo day. Basically he pays his phone bill.. can you belive it!! Haha I really don’t wanna call local help but he won’t leave and he knows we have no where to go.. I’ve even fled to his mother’s a few times but she is as thick as pig shit amd doesn’t bat an eye lid yo when I’ve been beaten in past just oh love stay here the night.. hes definitely golden child

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Yes it’s a joint tenancy. I’ve already been moved up the banding system and children share and put that it would mw myself and just the children when we do finally gwt a bigger house. But in this house it’s us both on tenancy. I’ve emailed council the situation so just awaiting for their response about relationship breakdown with DV invovled. My children are feeling it now there in the Young teens stage and no what’s what. They protect em and never want to be left alone.

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2 years has passed! Guess what still in same boat.. seriously how does people get out of these situations. Its not physical so not nessercary for police to get invovled. He won’t leave at all.. and I am stuck in house with kids no family or friends in the area. I pay for it all when we both work. Am sooooo drained do I ite the bullet and get local.services/housing invovled..

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A year has past since I first contacted womens aid.. yes I’m still in same position… am worn down! I have now contacted my local DA for advice.. its going to be a long road to get him out of the house. But I mentally and emotionally cant go on anymore.. I’m scared of getting agencies invovled. Scared my kids will be taken.. scared of the outcome. Just want something in place to say he has to leave.. 🙄😭

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Hioneslty at my wits end. Working 2 jobs being a parent. Putting on a brave face am literally dying Inside! I’ve cried all morning no motivation in anything feel like am a failure as a parent.

Where do I start to talk n tell someone am so scared

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Once again.. getting nowhere!

I’ve all the texts, messages emails of his behaviour towards me as proof of what he like…
He thinks am not gonna manage without him, sorry but what do you provide? I provide for house and kids 100% all my wages, he lives here n doesn’t pay a single thing other than he mobile.. yet he works 60+ hours week…

Managed (removed by moderator)yearsof this teen sweethearts as u would call it HAHAH.. not so much

I’m going to tell the council even though am petrified of the outcome incase other agencies get inbovled. Am a respectable working mum. He can’t be civil he can’t realise what’s he is doing is wrong.. basically when n children should be seen n not heard… we’re in 21st bloody century not 1500s

Rant over

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I’ve been on the council list for (detail removed by Moderator) years as siblings sharing. They dont see it a problem. Renting with estate agents or private are ridiculous now. I work fulltime but doesn’t make a difference as majority will know price increases are insane. I could tell them relationship breakdown.. but it’s that worry and scare of what will happen. Wish I could click my fingers and he be gone. Just co parent. He wil make my life more of a hellhole. Just the starting pint of it all scares me. I can provide on my own and for my children. We basically live like am a single parent.

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Honestly don’t know what to do. He won’t budge and I don’t wanna get people invovled, don’t want it all to jepodise my children school and my work as I work (detail removed by moderator). I can’t leave as I live month to month paying for everything. I have no family around me and no close friends to speak about this..

Is it really going to that hard

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