CakeEater3

[CakeEater3]

We did couples counselling after we broke up. Waste of time and in my opinion dangerous for people who are victims of domestic abuse, it’s an opportunity for them to dig up things to use as ammunition against you at a Later date. Also, they then think everything is sorted and everything can “go back to normal”.
It was an awful experience and not at all helpful.
Avoid at all costs

[CakeEater3]

It takes time and patience on your part, someone who is used to being in control has now lost or is losing that control.
I had very similar from my ex, he would climb into my garden and try to enter the house, everywhere I went he was there.
Start recording everything he is doing. Dates/times places he shows up uninvited etc and be firm with the boundaries.
In my experience putting the boundaries in made him worse and I couldn’t believe how he acted, so also be prepared to enforce boundaries by alerting the police.

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