Thank you so much ladies… I feel a lot better after listening to you and you’ve all really helped. For the first time, I know it’s going to get better. Every single man I’ve been with has undermined me- even my own father abandoned me when I was 8. My first boyfriend would hit me and control what I wore. I feel like I always pick the wrong ones and this is why it’s my problem. Thanks again, you will never know how grateful I am xx Going no contact will be hard. Thankfully, I don’t live with him, but the incessant calls, the abusive texts, the mind games, calling me a mental attention seeking beg will end