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    • #92809
      Dededaisy
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      I tried this- he got so angry and the abuse was unbelievable. I know how you feel though. Sending love xx

    • #92055
      Dededaisy
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      Thank you so much ladies… I feel a lot better after listening to you and you’ve all really helped. For the first time, I know it’s going to get better. Every single man I’ve been with has undermined me- even my own father abandoned me when I was 8. My first boyfriend would hit me and control what I wore. I feel like I always pick the wrong ones and this is why it’s my problem. Thanks again, you will never know how grateful I am xx Going no contact will be hard. Thankfully, I don’t live with him, but the incessant calls, the abusive texts, the mind games, calling me a mental attention seeking beg will end

    • #92863
      Dededaisy
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      Thank you for your reply. I’m feeling slightly better today.
      Yesterday was just unbelievable. I felt so low. I get so frustrated with myself because it’s like I can’t control how I’m feeling- my mood depends on how he feels. I’m going to look into counselling. I feel like it‘a going to be a long time before I can start trusting men again xx sending love back xx

    • #92860
      Dededaisy
      Participant

      Thank you very much for your reply. It’s made me feel better knowing that what I’m feeling is justified. I will book an appointment. Can I ask, how long did it take for you to rebuild confidence? Xx

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