Thankyou for the replies.
My partner tried to ‘get round me’ with intimacy for a couple of days following the latest incident. I had to be very firm in telling her that wouldn’t work and to give me some space, which she did in the end.
I was just beginning to calm down when she revealed that her (male) friend had rung her and they’d discussed the incident. The friend, who knows us both well, told her that he would’ve done the same thing to his wife (detail removed by moderator) if she’d (detail removed by moderator) on the same bit of road!.
Well I assume this was supposed to make me back down somehow but if so it backfired. I was fuming.
Really not too sure about the future, but I can’t make a decision right now. My partner’s not well at the moment.
I know one thing, I’m not prepared to be pushed around like I was by my ex!. The support here is very helpful x
